{"id":42156,"date":"2017-03-27T11:59:02","date_gmt":"2017-03-27T08:59:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/albaiulia\/?p=42156"},"modified":"2017-03-27T12:05:48","modified_gmt":"2017-03-27T09:05:48","slug":"neincrezatorul-meu-prieten-rational","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/neincrezatorul-meu-prieten-rational\/","title":{"rendered":"PASTILA ZILEI (27 Martie): Ne\u00eencrez\u0103torul meu prieten ra\u021bional&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fiecare dintre noi are prieteni, unii mai buni&#8230; al\u021bii mai calzi, unii mai direc\u021bi&#8230; al\u021bii mai vis\u0103tori, unii mai&#8230; adev\u0103ra\u021bi dec\u00e2t al\u021bii&#8230; <strong>dar \u0219i prieteni ira\u021bional de ra\u021bionali<\/strong>, cei care nu cred p\u00een\u0103 nu v\u0103d \u0219i pentru care nu exist\u0103 nimic p\u00een\u0103 nu se conving ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i c\u0103 exist\u0103!! Marea provocare a unei discu\u021bii cu un asemenea bun \u0219i drag prieten&#8230; este c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00eel convingi c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u0219i ceea ce nu se poate palpa, c\u0103 nu totul poate fi disecat \u0219i interpretat \u0219i c\u0103, mai ales asta&#8230; e periculos s\u0103 te cantonezi mereu \u00een sfera materialului!!! Aici nu e vorba despre orgolii sau despre cine are dreptate \u0219i cine nu are&#8230; aici e vorba despre o viziune asupra felului \u00een care curg lucrurile&#8230; via\u021ba nefiind doar matematic\u0103 pur\u0103 sau inginerie&#8230; via\u021ba \u00eenseamn\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 multe altele&#8230; \u0219i d\u0103ruire, elan, riscuri asumate, empatie \u0219i acceptare \u0219i mai ales o lupt\u0103 surd\u0103 cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi!! Degeaba \u00eencerc eu s\u0103 \u00eei ofer re\u021beta mea, verificat\u0103 \u00een timp, despre cum am trecut anumite r\u00e2uri \u0219i despre cum am urcat anumi\u021bi mun\u021bi&#8230; pentru c\u0103 prietenul meu ra\u021bional vrea s\u0103 se conving\u0103 cu proprii s\u0103i ochi \u0219i s\u0103 capete propriile sale cicatrice! Deci&#8230; eu unul, am renun\u021bat s\u0103 mai conving pe cineva c\u0103 poate face lucrurile \u00eentr-un fel anume, care din perspectiva mea-raportat\u0103 la el-mi se pare potrivit pentru el&#8230; e o lupt\u0103 pierdut\u0103 din start \u0219i nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 accentueze diferen\u021bele de opinii, inerente unor oameni cu personalit\u0103\u021bi bine conturate!! A\u0219adar&#8230; nu \u00eencerca\u021bi s\u0103 transfera\u021bi din \u00eencrederea voastr\u0103 \u0219i din energia voastr\u0103, minuna\u021bilor vo\u0219tri prieteni ne\u00eencrez\u0103tori \u0219i ra\u021bionali&#8230; nu \u00eencerca\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eei convinge\u021bi c\u0103 gre\u0219esc \u0219i c\u0103 exist\u0103 spa\u021bii suficient de \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103toare pentru visurile tuturor \u0219i mai ales c\u0103&#8230; aceste visuri pot deveni realitate, dac\u0103 lup\u021bi pentru ele, speri \u0219i crezi&#8230; nu&#8230; e o lupt\u0103 pierdut\u0103 din start, pentru c\u0103 nu are nicio \u0219ans\u0103!! Reu\u0219ita \u00een asemenea cazuri \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel aju\u021bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i fixeze singur obiective palpabile \u0219i nu foarte greu de atins&#8230; s\u0103 nu impui nimic ci doar s\u0103 sugerezi o strategie proprie de abordare \u0219i mai ales&#8230; s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi consumi energia \u00een dispute sterile&#8230; cu ve\u0219nic ne\u00eencrez\u0103torul prieten ra\u021bional&#8230; \u0219i mai ales nu \u00eel sufoca cu sfaturi despre ce \u0219i cum&#8230; las\u0103-l pe el s\u0103 le cear\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 are nevoie de tine&#8230; un prieten adev\u0103rat, care \u0219tie cum e s\u0103 fii \u0219i prea \u00eencrez\u0103tor \u0219i vis\u0103tor, dar \u0219i un perfectibil \u0219i ira\u021bional de ra\u021bional ne\u00eencrez\u0103tor \u00een visurile altora&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fiecare dintre noi are prieteni, unii mai buni&#8230; al\u021bii mai calzi, unii mai direc\u021bi&#8230; al\u021bii mai vis\u0103tori, unii mai&#8230; adev\u0103ra\u021bi dec\u00e2t al\u021bii&#8230; dar \u0219i prieteni ira\u021bional de ra\u021bionali,\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":42157,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10266],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pastila-zilei"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42156","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42156"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42156\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42157"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/urbeamea.ro\/alba\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}